Tiny Rebellion: Saying “No” Without the Apology Tour
Today’s tiny rebellion: Saying “no” without adding a 3-paragraph explanation, a calendar screenshot, and a heartfelt novella about how much you wish you could. Whether it’s declining a last-minute meeting invite or opting out of your cousin’s third baby shower this year, the struggle is real. Women are often taught that “no” is a dirty word. At work, it’s seen as uncooperative or not being a team player. At home, it feels like your responsibility is to show up for everyone and everything at any expense. And in both spaces, it’s often followed by a frantic attempt to soften the blow. However,“No” is not a rejection. It’s a boundary.” And like a good espresso shot, it is absolutely necessary. And here is why.
